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Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Disenchantment with work is growing. What can be done about it?

Just yesterday a friend of mine forwarded an article from the "Economist" to me and I want to share it with you, as I think it is important to increase awareness about this very serious topic.
Oct 8th 2009
From The Economist print edition
Illustration by Brett Ryder
SUICIDE, proclaimed Albert Camus in “The Myth of Sisyphus”, is the only serious philosophical problem. In France at the moment it is also a serious management problem. A spate of attempted and successful suicides at France Telecom—many of them explicitly prompted by troubles at work—has sparked a national debate about life in the modern corporation. One man stabbed himself in the middle of a meeting (he survived). A woman leapt from a fourth-floor office window after sending a suicidal e-mail to her father: “I have decided to kill myself tonight…I can’t take the new reorganisation.” In all, 24 of the firm’s employees have taken their own lives since early 2008—and this grisly tally follows similar episodes at other pillars of French industry including Renault, Peugeot and EDF (see article).
There are some parochial reasons for this melancholy trend. France Telecom is making the difficult transition from state monopoly to multinational company. It has shed 22,000 jobs since 2006, but two-thirds of the remaining workers enjoy civil-service-like job-security. This is forcing it to pursue a toxic strategy: teaching old civil servants new tricks while at the same time putting new hires on short-term contracts. Yet the problem is not confined to France. America’s Bureau of Labour Statistics calculates that work-related suicides increased by 28% between 2007 and 2008, although the rate is lower than in Europe. And suicide is only the tip of an iceberg of work-related unhappiness.
A survey by the Centre for Work-Life Policy, an American consultancy, found that between June 2007 and December 2008 the proportion of employees who professed loyalty to their employers slumped from 95% to 39%; the number voicing trust in them fell from 79% to 22%. A more recent survey by DDI, another American consultancy, found that more than half of respondents described their job as “stagnant”, meaning that they had nothing interesting to do and little hope of promotion. Half of these “stagnators” planned to look for another job as soon as the economy improved. People are both clinging on to their current jobs, however much they dislike them, and dreaming of moving when the economy improves. This is taking a toll on both short-term productivity and long-term competitiveness: the people most likely to move when things look up are high-flyers who feel that their talents are being ignored.
The most obvious reason for the rise in unhappiness is the recession, which is destroying jobs at a startling rate and spreading anxiety throughout the workforce. But the recession is also highlighting longer-term problems. Unhappiness seems to be particularly common in car companies, which suffer from global overcapacity, and telecoms companies, which are being buffeted by a technological revolution. In a survey of its workers in 2008, France Telecom found that two-thirds of them reported being “stressed out” and a sixth reported being in “distress”.
A second source of misery is the drive to improve productivity, which is typically accompanied by an obsession with measuring performance. Giant retailers use “workforce management” software to monitor how many seconds it takes to scan the goods in a grocery cart, and then reward the most diligent workers with prime working hours. The public sector, particularly in Britain, is awash with inspectorates and performance targets. Taylorism, which Charlie Chaplin lampooned so memorably in “Modern Times”, has spread from the industrial to the post-industrial economy. In Japan some firms even monitor whether their employees smile frequently enough at customers.
A more subtle problem lies in the mixed messages that companies send about loyalty and commitment. Many firms—particularly successful ones—demand extraordinary dedication from their employees. (Microsoft, according to an old joke, offers flexitime: “You can work any 18-hour shift that you want.”) Some provide perks that are intended to make the office feel like a second home. But companies also reserve the right to trim their workforce at the first sign of trouble. Most employees understand that their firms do not feel much responsibility to protect jobs. But they nevertheless find it wrenching to leave a post that has consumed so much of their lives.
Can anything be done about this epidemic of unhappiness? There are some people, particularly in Europe, who think that it strengthens the case for expanding workers’ rights. But doing so will not end the upheaval wrought by technological innovation in the telecoms sector or overcapacity in the car industry. And the situation in France Telecom was exacerbated by the fact that so many workers were unsackable. The solution to the problem, in so far as there is one, lies in the hands of managers and workers rather than governments.
Companies need to do more than pay lip service to the human side of management. They also need to learn from the well-documented mistakes of others (France Telecom has belatedly hired Technologia, a consultancy which helped Renault with its suicide problem). Bob Sutton of Stanford University argues that companies need to do as much as possible to come clean with workers, even if that means confirming bad news. He also warns that bosses need to be careful about the signals they send: in times of great stress ill thought-out turns of phrase can lead to a frenzy of anxiety and speculation.
As for the workers, the habit of battening down the hatches, which so irritates many companies, may be a sensible response to economic turmoil. In the longer term workers can take comfort from the fact that history may be on their side: in the rich world, low birth rates, an impending surge in retirements and caps on immigration could reduce the number of people of working age by 20-40%. Today’s unhappy workers may one day be able to exercise the ultimate revenge, by taking their services elsewhere.
Our next FREE Workshop is on October 21, 2009
We have scheduled our next workshop "Layoff During Difficult Times - The End or a New Beginning?"Did you lose your job?
Are you fearful and stuck, looking for guidance?
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Sometimes it's tough to stay positive considering all the fears and insecurities we have to deal with. However, we have learned from own experience that attitude is everything and it is our goal to communicate to YOU how you can turn a positive outlook in your job search into action.
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This attitude alone will separate you from others who are looking a job. I firmly believe, how you do anything is how you do everything!
"The only things that stand between a person and what they want in life are the will to try it, and the faith to believe it's possible."
- Rich Devos
When? October 21, 2009 from 6 pm - 8.45 pm
Where? Rexall Health Centre, 9625 Yonge Street, Richmond Hill (south of Major Mackenzie in the Weston Produce Plaza)
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Thursday, October 8, 2009
The Secret to the Road of Success

Tuesday, September 22, 2009
The How of Happiness
- They devote a great amount of time to their family and friends, nurturing and enjoying those relationships.
- They are comfortable expressing gratitude for all they have.
- They are often the first to offer a helping hand to coworkers and passerby.
- They practice optimism when imagining their futures.
- They savor life's pleasures and try to live in the present moment.
- They make physical exercise a weekly and even daily habit.
- They are deeply committed to lifelong goals and ambitions.
- Last but not least, the happiest people do have their share of stresses, crises, and even tragedies. They may become just as distressed and emotional in such circumstances as you or I, but their secret weapon is the poise and strength they show in coping in the face of challenge.
Pursuing happiness takes work, but consider that this "happiness work" may be the most rewarding work you will ever do.
In becoming happier, we not only boost experiences of joy, contentment, love, pride, and awe but also improve other aspects of our lives: our energy levels, our immune systems, our engagement with work and with other people, and our physical and mental health. In becoming happier, we bolster our feelings of self-confidence and self-esteem; we benefit not only ourselves but also our partners, families, communities, and even society at large.
If you are not happy today, then you won't be happy tomorrow unless you take things into your own hands and take action.
How to find happiness activities that fit your interests, your values, and your needs?
It goes without saying that a person needs to make an honest effort in trying a new strategy in order to achieve any benefit.
- Fit with the source of your unhappiness: The pessimist may benefit from cultivating optimism, the pleasure-lacking individual from savoring, the traumatized person from learning coping skills, and so on.
- Fit with your strengths: You can start by identifying your strengths, talents, or goals. For example, an achievement-oriented person may do well at pursuing significant life goals or taking up competitive sports as a way to boost his happiness, while a creative person may choose to express gratitude or forgiveness through painting or writing.
- Fit with your lifestyle: Think about the extent to which the activities you choose can be adapted to your needs and lifestyle. For example, if your life is stressful and hectic, then you can choose activities (like counting blessings) that don't take any extra time out of your day.
What are some happiness activities?
- Expressing Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Start writing a gratitude journal!
- Cultivating Optimism: Looking at the bright side, noticing what's right (rather than what's wrong), giving yourself the benefit of the doubt, feeling good about your future, or simply trusting that you can get through the day are all optimism strategies.
- Avoiding Overthinking and Social Comparison: The combination of rumination and negative mood is toxic.
- Practicing Acts of Kindness: The German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer wrote: "Compassion is the basis of all morality."
- Nurturing Social Relationships: Indeed, people with strong social support are healthier and live longer.
- Developing Strategies for Coping: No life - if we live long enough - is without stress, adversity, or crisis. In the wake of acute challenges like these, many people become depressed, fearful, or confused.
- Learning to Forgive: Forgiving is something that you do for yourself and not for the person who has wronged you.
- Increasing Flow Experiences: The key to creating flow is to establish a balance between skills and challenges.
- Savoring Life's Joys: We postpone our happiness, convincing ourselves that tomorrow will be better than today. It is important to learn how to appreciate and take pleasure in mundane, everyday experiences.
- Committing to Your Goals: People who strive for something personally significant are far happier than those who don't have strong dreams or aspirations.
- Practicing Religion and Spirituality: On the face of it, science and religion cannot mix. An essential path to finding meaning in your life is to work on developing your faith.
- Taking Care of Your Body (Meditation): Meditation has multiple positive effects on a person's happiness and positive emotions.
- Taking Care of your Body (Physical Activity): Physical activity reduces anxiety and stress; reduces the risk of numerous diseases; builds bones, muscles, and joints; increases quality of life; improves sleep; protects against cognitive impairments as we age; and helps control weight.
The challenge lies in sustaining the new level of happiness! Here are the five hows, grounded in the scientific literature.
- Positive Emotion: Although all human beings endure negative emotions, happy people experience positive states more frequently than their less happy peers. It's worth noting that in our day-to-day lives, emotions, thoughts, and experiences are connected and typically occur together.
- Optimal Timing and Variety: It is good to make happiness a habit but you need variety. So sprinkle a little of this and a little of that, revivify your happiness as an adventure, full of enterprise, developments and detours.
- Social Support: Think of social support as essentially a force that works with the behavioural change.
- Motivation, Effort, and Commitment: Just think of it, you are on the threshold of altering your life! Every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before.
- Habit: We all have habits - some good, some bad. Habits form with repetition and practice.
"It is never too late to be what you might have been." George Eliot
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Our next FREE Workshop is on September 23, 2009

Did you lose your job?
We provide a supportive and positive learning environment and empower people to achieve their full potential and realize their dreams. It is all about taking action and taking 100 % responsibility for your life and for your results!
Come and join us! It's time to sign up.....
Our commitment to you is to give you positive energy, a lot of new ideas and a fantastic workshop without any investment for you, except your time. If you give us your commitment to participate, please do not let anything prevent you from attending. It will be well worth your time and effort.
This attitude alone will separate you from others who are looking a job. I firmly believe, how you do anything is how you do everything!
When? September 23, 2009 from 6 pm - 8.45 pm
For further information please email: karin@karicosolutions.com or phone: 647-401-5274
Monday, September 14, 2009
Fearless Living - The Secret to Overcoming Your Personal Obstacles
If you are interested in attending or to answer any questions you may have, please contact David or myself!
